Human Behavior: Mind over Heart? Or Heart over Mind?

Head rule over the body!

Every individual has the right to decide whether to follow his/her heart or mind. But between the two, I’d prefer using my mind rather than following what the blood-pumping organ dictates.

We can relate it to the situation nowadays, many teenage girls even boys are mislead while doing what they feel is right than doing what they think is right!

In anatomy, we had knew that head is always above the body. We can also relate it to the increasing numbers of frustration of young lovers today who followed their hearts. Why use the heart when in whatever ways we look and think about it, the mind always do the thinking, while the heart does feel but never thinks. When we decide we make use of our mind, the heart just helps the mind how to decide through its feelings.

We need to see and think of things around us sixty percent while the remaining lies with the feelings , emotions that made us human, If we let our heart rule our mind, what then ? What can we do with love if you are with an irresponsible and no permanent job partner? Can love be eaten? Can you survive with only love in your heart and have air in the stomach? A BIG NO!

“Use the heart to protect those who are close to you, and use the brain to protect yourself”, this explains the truth about having heart under the possession of the mind. People that are losing their proper attitudes and mind are very rampant nowadays because of what we called heartache or heartbreak that they can’t handle properly.

I learned to love because there are important people around me that I cherish and cared a lot, but how can I possibly love others if I don’t even love myself? I do believe that what you give and share to others start within yourself; it’s not a selfish idea but a smart one.

  On the other side, the heart and mind still have to work hand in hand with each other but the final and last decision should always be coming from the mind.

For example, your mind said to the heart to forget the person that had hurt you in the past, then the heart answered that how he could forget him if the mind is always thinking about him? So you see, the two were connected.